Friday, January 16, 2009

How To Get My Ex Back


Are you wanting to get your ex back?

You're not alone - thousands of others just like you are thinking this same thing every day. They're all looking for a way to save a relationship that may have gone wrong.

Relationships are a two-way street, and one that needs to be nourished from both sides.

But sometimes, for whatever reason, that doesn't happen, and the relationship finds itself getting out of balance and slipping onto the hard rocks of breakup.

Usually one side wants to get back together, and if that's you, then there's hope, because the good news is that in most cases, the relationship CAN be salvaged. As a matter of fact, around 90% of all relationships can be saved... IF it's done the right way.

If you're in that situation, we're going to show you exactly what you should do to get your ex back.

But first, we're going to show you what NOT to do:

1.  Don't appear needy, clingy, desparate, or begging.
2.  Don't try and convince them you are the love of their life.
3.  Don't apologize profusely for everything.
4.  Don't promise to change for good this time.
5.  Don't try to get them to see that it wasn't really our fault.
6.  Don't call or text them a million times a day.

There's a reason you separated, and now is the time to let both of you have your space to sort things out.

OK, now here is what you SHOULD do:

1.  Be strong and flexible, even in tough times.
2.  Agree with the breakup. (Yes, we know this is counterintuitive, but trust us. It works.)
3.  Minimize contact with them for a while. Let them have their own space.
4.  Put yourself in their shoes and try and see why the break up happened in the first place.
5.  Go out and be with people and friends. Do something meaningful.
6.  Don't try and make them jealous.
7.  Be yourself.

These are some of the steps, but there's actually much more involved to insure that you get back with your ex in a long term way.

There's a lot of relationship advice out there, and some of it's good.

But most of it misses out on the key points of what it really takes to put your relationship back on track.

Many of the courses, ebooks, and guides give only one main principle: "Don't contact your ex for 30 days and for 30 days, work on yourself."

But that won't work for everyone - there are many specific situations that require different solutions.

We searched high and low to find quality information on how to get back with your ex, and the only guide we've found that goes into significant enough detail to cover all types of breakups is T. W. ("T. Dub")  Jackson's  The Magic of Breaking Up.

Here is a video of T. Dub giving an idea of what his guide is all about. He gives some great tips in here, so be sure to watch the whole thing:


T. Dub is a great guy, and has had a lot of experience in this area. Once you've watched the video, then go here to take a look at the guide itself:

The Magic of Making Up

It's really not hard to save a relationship if you just follow the simple steps outlined in this blog and in T.Dub's book. And it is SO worth it ... 

Here's to your getting back with your ex fast,

We're supporting you all the way,

Rich and Carolyn








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